What is best for me to use for my almost dead falling off hair!!!?

The best product out there is called "Nioxin" and you can actually get it at a lot of salons even a cheap place like a "Supercuts" if you have one near you. It was recommended to me by my stylist a couple summers ago when I was swimming all the time and always had my hair pulled back. I was getting a lot of breakage and damage and then, inexplicably it started falling out in clumps! I started using Nioxin and I couldn't believe how healthy my hair started to become. I would even say that it is probably healthier than before I started swimming! It was designed for cancer patients after chemotherapy so it is supposed to draw any toxins away from the hair follicle and promote new growth. It's about $35 for the starter kit (I always buy the kit) but I think you can purchase them individually for about $10 each (shampoo, conditioner, styling products). Again, I can't stress enough how great this stuff is! Good luck! :)